There are many sexual practices today. Shibari is a practice that does not necessarily lead to sexual intercourse. Today, therefore, we explain to you everything you need to know to start practicing shibari. This art of submission and domination , means in Japanese "to attach" or "to bind" and is a kind of artistic and/or sexual big penis sleeve.
Shibari, also known as Kinbaku, is an ancient Japanese art of restraint , which involves binding the human body with ropes. Although it may seem strange or even scary to some, Shibari is actually a very refined erotic art , which aims to create physical, emotional and spiritual bonds between the different partners.
In medieval Japanese society, Kinbaku was a technique used for the capture, corporal punishment and torture of prisoners by the military. The tether practiced on the captive was different according to status and social class within Japanese society. It allowed at first glance to distinguish the samurai, the nobles or the people of the people.
Over time, Japanese bondage became a discreet art then recognized in 1908 as an art in its own right. Today, the positions and patterns created by the strings are often based on traditional Japanese knotting techniques , but Shibari artists are also known for their creativity and innovation.
Shibari is an art often associated with the BDSM community, but it can be practiced independently of any sexual activity. Participants can feel a strong sense of connection and intimacy through the shared experience of tethering.
But what is the difference between bondage and shibari? Shibari is the concept of either tying or binding using ropes. Bondage is also the art of being attached, however different objects can be used: handcuffs, ropes, scarves... The only limits are the imagination!
Shibari is an art of restraint that can be practiced in different ways and for different reasons. Whether you are a novice or an experienced practitioner, it is essential to clearly determine what your desires and motivations are. Indeed, Japanese bondage is often practiced by several people, it is also essential to ensure the consent of your partner.
So the first step is to discuss the boundaries you want to establish. These may vary depending on one's experience, past traumas, fears or personal preferences. It is important to determine which parts of the body are to be avoided or limited. You also need to determine the types of movements and pressures that are acceptable.
Next, it is essential to communicate your desires and expectations regarding the practice of Shibari. What kind of experience do you want to have? What patterns and positions would you like to try? Open and honest communication with your partner is key to ensuring both parties are on the same page.
Before starting shibari, it is therefore important to agree on certain rules in order to protect both of you.
Because of the relationship of domination and submission, shibari must be practiced in a safe environment for all, whether physically or psychologically. Communicating upstream with your partner is important in order to also know his desires and desires.
To practice shibari you will need jute or hemp ropes provided for this purpose, safety scissors and finally a clean, dry and warm area. The ropes for shibari measure between 4 and 6 millimeters in diameter. They are usually 8 meters long and are treated with wax to make them supple and soft to the touch.
The ropes sold on SexyAvenue are ideal for beginners before investing in real shibari ropes (quite expensive). They allow you to learn and assimilate the first knots to start learning shibari.
Then, slowness is one of the fundamental characteristics of shibari bondage. You have to respect both the recommended knots and be careful not to hurt the roped partner.
Indeed, a nerve can quickly be pinched or a blood flow cut off. Reasons why this practice requires many basic safety rules. This is why it is often recommended to take specialized courses to learn shibari. These are available everywhere in France.
Some elementary rules are also to know for a good practice. Do not squeeze a vein or artery. The rope must not pass through a crease in the body (knees, armpit, elbow, etc.). Safety scissors are essential in case a knot or rope gets stuck.
Shibari is a fascinating practice. Ropes, impressive positions, suspensions, a real connection to BDSM... However, you shouldn't venture into it without a minimum of expertise!